Did you know that Facebook has 936 Million users worldwide?
Facebook is integrated in the lifestyles of most people. They check Facebook when they wake-up, when they are waiting for the bus, when they have lunch, while they are working and right before they go to sleep. Some people also post pictures of themselves or with friend, of their breakfast and they post ‘what is on their mind’ like when they are happy, when they are sad, when they are in love. They also give their opinion about political discussions or post what they are doing like ‘in the gym’. All this to stay in touch with their friends. But why spend all your time on Facebook, when you can actually spend time with your friends in real life? Are we losing our real friends, because we keep updating our Facebook friends?
Because we are spending so much time on Facebook, you would say we have less time for our real friends and real life meetings. But it does not look that way if we believe the research being done by Michigan State University. Both non-stop Facebook users as anti-Facebook users seem to have five close friends. According to the study from Michigan State University, students with an average of 175 Facebook friends use their online time to maintain the friendship with these close friends.
Media psychologist and social media consultant Mischa Coster said: “ Because of social media, people visit each other more often in real life. Online and offline flow into on another. You do not have to ask what they are up to, because you already read it on twitter.”
I agree with Coster, because of the internet it is easier to make plans with your friends. For example you can make an event on Facebook, or you can send a personal message if you want to meet up. But I do not like it when my friends are constantly on Facebook when I am with them. For example that time when I had diner in a restaurant with my friend. The food was finally ready and although I was really hungry, I could not touch my food. Not because it was hot or anything, but because my friend wanted to make a picture of the plate ‘for snapchat’, she said. So it is a good thing to stay online, but when you are meeting up with friend in real life, you can go offline.
Do you have more or less friends because of social media? And what do you prefer, online or offline friends? Has the day, Einstein feared for, already begun?
N. B. Ellison, C. Steinfield, C. Lample. 2007. The Benefits of Facebook “Friends:” Social Capital and College Students’ Use of Online Social Network Sites. August 2007
http://www.socialbakers.com/statistics/facebook/