Thanks to the rise of social media, we can keep in touch with our friends and families living on the other side of the world, and share our daily activities with them. Not only that, but nowadays it feels like our lives are revolved around the usage of social media and that it has integrated to be a part of our lives. Think about all the times we have spent checking Facebook, Instagram, Twitter or other social media platforms daily. Nevertheless, there is also a dark side of social media. According to Marsh (2017), almost half of the girls in the UK have experienced some sort of harassment or abuse on social media while 40% of boys have also experienced similar bullying experiences online. Sometimes cyberbullying could be much more worse, resulting cyberbullying victims to take their own lives when they couldn’t stand against the constant online bullying anymore (NoBullying.com, 2017).
Recently, an app has been created named “Tbh”, the abbreviation of “To Be Honest”, with the goal to encourage teenagers to be kind towards each other. This app has become so popular since its launch 9 weeks ago that it has been downloaded more than 5 million times (Lee, 2017). In fact, Facebook acquired the app recently for an undisclosed fee too, since they believe that they share the same goal of building community and enabling people to share in ways that bring us closer together (Liao, 2017). The cool thing about Tbh is that it allows you to send prewritten complements to your friends as seen on the picture above. How it basically works is that after you import your contact list into the app, the app will show predetermined questions such as “Who has the best smile?” and 3-4 names will pop up. Then you have to answer the question by selecting one your friends who you believe has the best smile. In the end, your friends who are selected will be notified, but who selected them will be kept anonymous.
This app strives to create a positive and interactive environment online, where it encourages users to give each other compliments in a fun and mysterious way. With the introduction of Tbh, I believe that more apps with similar positive interactions will start coming, as it will also help minimize cyberbullying indirectly. What do you think? Would you also like to use Tbh?
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Hi Xian Tse,It’s always great to read about initiatives such as these. The relations between social media/the internet and mental health remain so ambiguous, but this kind of application can really be a way to turn the power of the internet into a positive force for mental health.
The only caveat I really see though, is, who is going to use this? Who will use it seriously? And for how long? After the novelty wears off, is there any value left? At the same time, this kind of app can maybe create some kind of culture shift, where we all start acknowledging the good things about each other.
Hello Xian,
I did not know about this application, what a great initiative! The only thing I find disappointing is that we need an app to give each other compliments and to spread positivism.. Cyberbullying is a bad thing. I do believe it will become less as social media platforms like platforms have more grip on it. There are functions with which you can indicate messages as not acceptable. But it’s a nice initiative to spread some positivism!
Hi Xian,
Interesting blogpost!
It’s nice to see that there are initiatives to stop the cyberbullying.
I’m glad I’ve never experienced online bullying. So therefore, I don’t feel the need to use these kind of apps.
I can imagine that it would be an great boost for bullied children to get such positive messages.
The question that raised to me: Since you import all your contacts from your phone (600 in my case), it is impossible to send a positive personalized message to all of them. So, TBH needs a lot of users, otherwise people can feel alone again when they sign up, but don’t get messages…